Advice columnist
Dear Mr. Grant, I see that you are in a difficult situation and understand that you have a lot on your shoulders to carry. I feel like if you really didn’t want to do it, you wouldn’t have. The first thing you need to do is ask yourself is “Is he a hog?”. If your answer is no and you know that your doing the right thing there should be nothing to stop you. You need to understand the young man and relate to him. What is he being called and told when your not there with him? You don’t know. He sitting in a cell by himself thinking of who knows what. Bare with him. He’s going through a lot and need somebody like you to be there for him and guide him. He needs somebody like him. A young black man that has to experience the same thing experiences in our society. Don’t give up. Continue to talk to him wnd let him know he’s not alone. Sincerely, advice columnist